THE WOUNDS THAT NEVER SHOW

Trauma

"TRAUMA CREATES CHANGES YOU DON'T CHOOSE. HEALING IS ABOUT CREATING CHANGES YOU DO CHOOSE." - MICHELLE ROSENTHAL
TRAUMA
People think if it's not big it's not trauma. If it distresses you and interferes with your wellbeing, there is a possibility of trauma.

I have completed the advanced Eye Movement Integration (EMI) training a short term therapy that is very effective when working with the following conditions - crisis, grief, burn out, anxiety and triggers for substance abuse.
"TRAUMA CREATES CHANGES YOU DON'T CHOOSE. HEALING IS ABOUT CREATING CHANGES YOU DO CHOOSE." - MICHELLE ROSENTHAL
" A HEALTHY OUTSIDE STARTS FROM THE INSIDE." - ROBERT URICH
HOLISTIC COUNSELLING
Holistic Counselling is a highly personalised approach that helps you, help yourself when you feel the need for support or assistance. 

The difference between Counselling and Holistic Counselling: Rather than treating just the symptoms, a holistic counsellor looks deeper and tries to uncover underlying causes.
" A HEALTHY OUTSIDE STARTS FROM THE INSIDE." - ROBERT URICH
HAYLEY VAN STENIS
HOW I WORK
Trauma results from an emotional reaction to a disturbing event i.e natural disaster, accident or attack on a persons self.

Crisis is any changes in the human or their environment which causes instability. Being in crisis for long periods of time may result in the body and mind experiencing the crisis as trauma.

It is important to see trauma and crisis as a mind body affliction and to make space for the healing of both within the therapeutic process. I use EMI (Eye Movement Integration Therapy) when working within these settings as it is a highly effective short term model.
HAYLEY VAN STENIS
"WHEN THERE ARE NO WORDS, LET YOUR EYES DO THE TALKING." - RUPAUL
WHAT IS EMI?
EMI (Eye Movement Integration Therapy) is a short term therapeutic intervention. Clients may experience a shift within two to three sessions. Seen as a neuro-therapeutic modality, combined with psychotherapy, it is a therapeutic tool to help the brain change traumatic memory networks and heal itself.

Research has shown that our eye movements are connected to our memory networks. Through guided eye movements, we can also access these memory networks and reprocess them. Through the eyes, we thus have a perfect entrance to the brain and old trauma memory networks.
"WHEN THERE ARE NO WORDS, LET YOUR EYES DO THE TALKING." - RUPAUL
"SOMETIMES YOU WILL NEVER KNOW THE VALUE OF A MOMENT UNTIL IT BECOMES A MEMORY." - DR. SEUSS
WHEN TO USE EMI?
EMI can be used to de-activate any and all traumatic memories. EMI can be used for a single traumatic incident and for more complex trauma such as experiences that continued over many years. EMI has successfully been used with:

Phobias; Physical, emotional or sexual abuse; Violence grief; Anxiety and panic attacks; Any form of accident; Burn out; Psychological aspects of illness; and Traumatic medical procedures.

EMI can be used successfully at any age from about 4 years old.
"SOMETIMES YOU WILL NEVER KNOW THE VALUE OF A MOMENT UNTIL IT BECOMES A MEMORY." - DR. SEUSS
"Be yourself, everyone else is already taken." - Oscar Wilde
MAKE AN APPOINTMENT
Individual or couples sessions can be booked. As we are facing the COVID-19 Pandemic, we also offer Skype and Zoom sessions.

Languages: English & Afrikaans.
"Be yourself, everyone else is already taken." - Oscar Wilde
“Judge a man by his questions rather than by his answers.” - Voltaire
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
What can I expect in our first session? What is the difference between Holistic Counselling and regular Counselling?

All the answers to all your questions.
“Judge a man by his questions rather than by his answers.” - Voltaire